Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Monthly Musings : December -20 A Year Like Never Before

 

Monthly Musings : December -20 A Year Like Never Before

This month on 5th Dec Manas had his quarterly chemo which is the LP. The chemo went fine but we had forgotten the side effects hence he had the usual vomiting and mood swings but later in evening he was fine and discharged. Manas had his exams this month and he is now regular with his studies, he did decent in all papers barring Physics which is his tough subject. Shalini arranged for online tution for him. Shalini along with Pushkala maam had gone to Pallakad to do the small pooja which she had prayed for his recovery, the pooja was done nicely and also the astrologer cum priest mentioned that Manas will do quite well and just little more treatment has to continue, which is the maintenance phase. Now we play everyday for an hour. Manas wanted a new set of cricket pad, bat and gloves and we went to Players Choice and got it. He was able to practice in our apartment nets. We also went to Anitha’s Cjhristmas dinner something Manas had promised he will come next year walking on his own and wanted to do that. That was the only other external interaction we had. Sangita and Vishal had also drove down from Pune to meet Manas. The year 2020 has been a transformational year for everyone, it made us face our worst fears, forced us to come out of comfort zones and made us value all those things that we take for granted. Personally 2020 has been the antidote for our 2019 journey and it allowed me to work from home, balance time between Manas and work and made health a priority. I wish the year is seen as Lifes way of first giving a test and then teaching us the subject and 2021 brings in new positivity and hope to everyone. Would like to end the year to all our well wishers, friends, families and not to  mention the amazing doctors and support staff at MSMC who constantly kept us motivated and positive stating this time too shall pass and it did indeed. Have a blessed new 2021.